"You may say I'm a dreamer, but I'm not the only one"

Welcome to the world of a dreamer...a person who is heavily influenced by music, a person who loves looking at things with a simplistic outlook. I am a big fan of The Beatles.

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I am a dreamer, procrastinator, last-minute worker. Music is my passion--I am an obsessive music collector. Often I collect gigabytes of music only with the hope to listen to'em "someday". I like writing, reading, and I also cherish to learn to play the guitar someday...

Sunday, May 15, 2011

Tales of Dhaka City Roads

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I observed a very unusual incident a few days ago. A young guy was talking on the cellphone while riding his bike. One cannot really imagine how this feat can be achieved unless seen by own eyes. To make things more incredible, he was actually using his one hand to attach the cell phone with his right ear while trying to maintain balance with his solitary unoccupied hand. Result—he stumbled in front of a car and almost got hit by the rickshaw I was riding. The guy had a minor fall and I gave him a friendly advice – “Brother please don’t use the cellphone while driving”. My words did not register in his ears; he did not even look at me. He simply got up, set his cycle on the street, gave a meek smile and within no time, I saw him repeating the same activity. Soon he had to slow down again to avoid getting hit by another speeding vehicle.

This is an extreme example of the roadside hazards that we face everyday in our beloved Dhaka city.  Thanks to the bread earning job, everyday I have to make two mandatory travels—one in the morning and the other after sunset. Apart from these, I also have to do those small strolls and extended rides to satisfy various needs during the day time.

In my opinion, pedestrians and rickshawpullers are the prime reason behind traffic jams and accidents in Dhaka city. Almost everyday, we have to exercise rock’ n roll dance moves in our car in order to save the lives of a pedestrian or two.

Let me paint an everyday picture for a better understanding. Imagine you are driving your car at normal speed on a typical Dhaka evening. Car movement is slow due to dense traffic. Suddenly you notice that there is a significant gap between you and the next car ahead. Naturally, you would want to speed up to cover the distance. However, it is almost biblical that a stray pedestrian will want to utilize the gap and run to cross the road. So what happens is that you have to break hard, make some deafening tire screeching noise and stop the car “just” before hitting the adventurous jaywalker.

Now you just stopped yourself from killing an innocent. Innocent, is he? No, he is not.

He did not assess the traffic situation before attempting to cross the road. He failed to notice the incoming, speeding cars. He is totally irresponsible to both himself, his family and everyone around. He nearly killed himself, and it is only because of your extraordinary braking skill and driving finesse he can still glare at you unharmed. It is only natural that he will shout out obscenities at you for being a “mad, people killing” driver while you will be in a bewildered state.
The pedestrian walks away unharmed, but you, the driver, continue to remain grumpy and shaken. He just “unmade” your day. For the remainder of the journey, you tend to be over cautious and slow. This causes you severe annoyance to the other drivers on the road. They get impatient by your slow driving and make it a holy quest to show you the way “it is done”. For the remainder of your journey, all you hear is deafening honking of varied horns at the back. 

According to everyone’s trusted friend Wikipedia, a vehicle horn is a sound-making device used to warn others of the approach of the vehicle or of its presence. However, I am quite sure that once overused, the “warning” part of the definition turns in to “annoying”. Actually a vehicle horn becomes a sound making device that is used to annoy others.

It seems that drivers are always keeping a hand on the horns just to annoy pedestrians and other drivers on the roads. The relentless honking of several kinds of horns (ranging from hare krishna hare raam type sounds to vuvuzela imitators) will make even the most ardent heavy metal fan’s ears revolt. It is a mystery how we, the Dhaka city dwellers are still eluding deafness. Or are we? Maybe there is some unpublished statistic that shows that on average, 80% of the city dwellers are already suffering from some kind of hearing imparity.

And these are just a few examples of what goes on in the streets of Dhaka....

Tuesday, May 03, 2011

Life's Little Updates

It's been a long time since I just "blogged away". Most of my recent attempts at blogging centered around a particular topic or theme, and naturally, most of those entries are rotting in the drafts section. You can call it a writer's block or a publisher's nightmare, but the reality is--I haven't been able to finish them and it is most likely that they won't get published anytime soon. But then again, does anyone really care to read my blog anymore? I had a circle of blog friends some time back. They'd write, I'd read and vice-versa. But most of them, just like me, have become really busy with life and they just gave up writing. I used to know some really promising writers. It's a pity now that they can't find any time for blogging.

So what's been going on with my life? 

I have a very involved social life now. Since getting married in 2009, most of my weekends are now occupied with visits to the in laws or attending some social event. I have a huge extended family. My wife has numerous uncles, aunts and a plethora of cousins. My own is not little, too. Almost every month someone has a birthday, marriage anniversary, or some other memorable event where anybody and everybody belonging to the social cohort needs to attend. These just can't be avoided. And, oh, by the way, the toughest of all are the full fledged wedding ceremonies. The cousins have started to get married, and each occasion yields 3-5 invitations on different days!

While I am not averse to enjoying these occasions, it becomes a bit painful when they fall during weekdays. To make things worse, sometimes the venues are too far away and sometimes I need to spend too much time attending them. I can't complain about an event where I have to show up in time, mingle with a lot of people, have a mouthful and return home peacefully. However, the ones where I need to actively participate, arrive long before anyone is even dressed up and stay till the last guest has left and a little bit more really bores me and wears me out. I am just not that social. 

I always prefer a quiet day at home or a lovely evening with just my wife against meeting a hell load of people in a cramped space with inadequate air conditioning. Summer in Bangladesh is getting bad to worse. The other day the temperature inside the car (before turning on the AC and after it had been parked under the open sky for an hour) was as high as 45 degrees (centigrade). Spending a significant portion of the day in a highly comfortable environment has accustomed me to disliking any hot place. 

Yes, I am talking about my office. The air conditioning works really well, and we are hardly warm--even during the winter. So any deviance from the comfort zone just irritates the hell out of me, and survival with a sane mind gets challenging.

So today I have another invitation, and it is after work. I still have an hour or two to go before getting out of work. Despite of having a heavy lunch "oh so typical" of Bangladeshi peoples, I am feeling hungry. But going out to grab a bite is not really possible right now and I don't think I will be doing that.

I have become quite regular on twitter now. I used to have a gadget added in my blog which shows my latest tweets. But unfortunately it is no longer there. When I had the gadget, I'd hardly use twitter. Actually, I totally missed the point of twitter back then. Now I use it as a weapon of mass ranting. All my rants, whines and complains against life gets dumped in twitter.

I have 583 tweets, and I am sure at least 550 of them are rants. Hehe, no, it's not that bad. But it is still worth a laugh reading all of it.

Right now I am chewing a piece of minty gum and waiting for the time to come. The time to get out of office, that is. A new album from Andrea Corr is coming up and I can't wait to hear it. I really miss the band Corrs and Andrea's first solo album hardly filled the void.

Lifelines is the upcoming CD. I hope I will be able to get it as soon as it comes out.

Ten feet high was a good album, but nothing exceptional. She tried to sing like a popstar in this album, but she should realize by now that her fans are more accustomed to listening to her voice the usual celtic arrangements of her band. Instead of violins and cellos, this album utilizes rock guitar riffs, pop drum beats and electronic sounds. While it works in a few tracks, overall the album was not great.

Blue On BlueTen Feet HighLifelines: Special Edition

However, the album blue on blue by Leigh Nash was actually a great album. Leigh is relevant because both Andrea and Leigh started their solo careers after their well known bands went in to hiatus. The song kiss me is still one of my all time favorite songs by Sixpence None The Richer. 

Good news for all, Sixpence None The Richer is active again and they will soon bring out a new album. 
 
Anyway, enough of random writing for the day. Will resume some other day.